Sexual concerns and issues are common, what is uncommon is having the courage to face them.

  • Has sex become infrequent and stale?
  • Have you lost the passion and excitement that you used to share?
  • Is sex something you now fight about, where it used to bring you together?
  • Are you rarely in the mood, rarely think about sex, or have lost interest in sex?
  • Do either of you struggle with behaviors that feel beyond your control (e.g., porn viewing)?
  • Women, do you have trouble with lubrication, having orgasms, have them infrequently, or with little of the intensity of the past? Do you have pain during intercourse?
  • Men, do you struggle with rapid ejaculation or delayed orgasm? Do you have difficulty obtaining or maintaining an erection?